Nigerian rapper Ladipoe recently opened up about his views on money and relationships, emphasizing that men are generally expected to provide.
Speaking as a guest on the Midday Show, Ladipoe discussed the “billing culture,” where men are often expected to foot the bill in relationships. He shared that he doesn’t fully buy into many of the viral stories circulating online about unfair financial demands.
“I really wonder if people are telling the truth about these stories they share online. If you’re with a reasonable person, things usually balance out. If I invite you to dinner, I’m paying. I don’t even understand why that’s a topic of discussion. I don’t believe these stories; I just don’t think they’re true,” he said.
The rapper went on to explain that men often feel an inherent need to provide in relationships, though he’s uncertain whether it’s a positive or negative expectation.
“As a man, there’s this unspoken pressure to provide. I’m not sure if that’s a good thing or not, but it’s definitely an important trait in a relationship. A man has to realize that providing isn’t everything, but it’s a significant part of it.”
He also praised his current partner for her support, revealing that she reciprocates his efforts, which motivates him to do even more for her.
“Aside from my mum or an aunt, no woman has ever sent me money. I remember once, my big cousin sent me $60 when I was in college. That’s the only time I can think of, aside from my mum. No girl has done that for me,” Ladipoe shared.
He added, “That’s why I’m with my partner—she gives me things ‘just because.’ She pours into me as well, and that’s what drives me to want to provide for her. But at the end of the day, no one wants to feel taken advantage of.”
